Week 3: There is No Hurry in Africa...  

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Work
So my boss (and the manager of the entire WAGE-Kinondoni program) was away in Morogoro this week. This meant the office was much quieter (Joyce is a very loud woman, God bless her soul) and also more relaxed (Joyce, like most supervisors, has an uncanny ability of heightening the tension level). Since people were so busy with Saba Saba, I did not go into the field to do any interviews for more human interest stories. So most of my time was spent working on the brochure, which is progressing at a painstakingly slow rate and getting better acquainted with my first love (the Internet).

Initially, this was a bit frustrating for me since I am used to working at a break neck speed, but I kept encountering the same phrase, "There is no hurry in Africa...". Dear reader, trust me when i tell you, truer words have never been spoken!

My only worry is that I will not be able to finish all my work in time. At this point I only have 5 weeks left (my how time flies).

Still, I cannot argue with the pace. My physical and mental health seem to welcome the change.

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So even though work was slow (or perhaps work was slow for this reason), Tuesday was a public holiday (Saba Saba i.e. July 7th get it? ). This meant I did not have to go work! I had intended on getting my hair done (these twists need to go...) but there were no appointments available. So I settled on getting my hair done on Saturday and thought I would just spend the day at home chilling.

Then, David called and invited me to go to Saba Saba (the actual international trade fair) with his Aunt (who works for the Ministry of Health) and Dennis (his cousin). Even though I had already been for work, I decided to go again since not only is the trade fair what the holiday is meant to commemorate, but also this was the day most Tanzanians went so there would be more people there. Plus, I could get out of the house!

So David picked me up and we met Dennis and his Aunt (who is a really lovely woman) and we were off to Saba Saba.

So here is the skinny on Saba Saba
Tons of vendors (from everywhere) but even more people! It reminded me a lot of the Taste of Chicago (and I had to smile to myself at the thought). Still, it was a good experience (even if it was blisteringly hot!). We walked around, talked, saw the different vendors, and even went to a Zoo they had.

That was a bit of a sensory overload. There were SO many people trying to see what seemed to me like sad, depressed animals. Still, I got to see all the usual: Lion, Giraffe, Giant Tortoise, Snakes, Crocodile (or maybe it was an alligator), and a few monkeys.

Then David's aunt treated us all to lunch which was very nice of her. (The food was delicious as always.) We hung around for a bit more after that, then headed home. In all, I really enjoyed the experience. =)

Then the next day, when I got off work, Sheena decided she wanted to go out. So she treated me to dinner (Kuku Choma, my favorite) and then we went for drinks at George and Dragon and then Irish Pub.

Two highlights from that night:
  • Serengeti: It is a hard cider they have here. More like a sweet ambrosia! Two big thumbs WAY up!
  • Irish Pub had Karaoke!: Anyone who knows me knows, I LOVE Karaoke! So I ended up singing (and rapping ) All Falls Down by Kanye West in front of a bar full of drunk tourists and Tanzanians! I was going to sing I Will Survive by Donna Summers but this woman beat me to it! Still, it wasnt too bad. Plus, I need stories to tell the grandkids! ;-)
So that was Week 3, the weekend looks exciting. I am supposed to get my hair braided (which I am excited and anxious about!). Wish we luck!

Pictures
(Because of my internet connection, it takes FOREVER to upload pictures, so i can only upload a few. My Apologies.)


Part of Saba Saba. The Place was HUGE!
Random Pic

David speaking to this Asian Man who used to work for CARE (see! International)
apologies in advance for allegations of tokenism

Me and David
Dennis!

Finally, a Thank You!

Thank you to everyone who has reached out to me with kind words about this blog! I really do appreciate it. It makes me want to post more (even when I am tired or busy). From my all my linesisters (Glen, Ty, and Nat), neos (britney, ko, sarah, judine, kenya and e.doe) , sorors (Pam!), friends (haleta, adjoa, tiffany, patricia), and recently reunited friends from elementary school (Camille!), I appreciate all the kind words!

And do not be afraid to use the comments section! lol

~tiffany

My Second Weekend in Dar-Es-Salaam  

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Saturday
So, after what would best be described as a GREAT time at the club on Friday, Saturday I woke up and thought Sheena and I were going to Bagamoyo for the day with her brother.
But it turns out that wasn’t happening any longer. Then, almost as if on cue, I get a text from David asking what my plans for the day are. Since my plans had suddenly freed up, I called it fate and agreed to get some food with that afternoon. We decided to go this burger place called Best Bite. But we ordered chicken pizza on a whim (not to just to be ironic…)

While chatting, I realized David is actually hilarious. Apparently, he HATES working for CARE. So he had me dying with laughter from his personal stories of working there. In his opinion, it is not the most effective agency. But in their defense, the type of work CARE specializes in does not really lend itself to quick results.

After food, we met his cousin David and went to this place called Mama’s Pub. Dennis, David’s cousin, is very nice. He goes to school in UK and is home for the summer. He spent a lot of time laughing about our mutual love of show, The Office. We actually stayed at Mama’s for a bit chatting. David mentioned that he was originally a McCain supporter, so that sparked a LONG and heated debate (but it ended amicably).

When we left Mama’s Pub, David dropped me off at home. He asked if I would like to join him for church the next day. Since this sounded worlds better than watching a televangelist sermon on TV at home with Sheena, I immediately agreed.

Note About Jamal:
Some may be wondering what happened to Jamal. After last Sunday, I did not see him. To make a long story short, I had to cut off all communication with that man. I will save the details for another post.


Sunday
Woke up a little late but I saw that I hadn’t missed any calls from David about church. He called later to say his phone had died and the electricity where he lives had gone out . Although I was disappointed since this is Week 2 with having been to a church service here, I still managed to get out of watching the televangelist program with Sheena, so I wasn’t upset.

Sunday was a pretty lazy day. I laid around the house, surfed the net, and did some reading. I am currently LOVING this Paulo Coehlo book, Veronika Decides to Die.

Later I went to dinner at this place called Rose Garden with David. I had Kuku Choma (Roasted Chicken). It was DELICIOUS. First, I already love barbecue. But this was great because not only did it have this great smoke flavor, the chicken was so FRESH!

Dinner was really good. Besides the food, David kept me entertained with more hilarious stories about life in Dar. Then I went home and got ready for work the next day....

So that was my weekend. It was pretty chill, but it had all the basic requirements.

Good food. Lots of Laughter. Great Company.

An Awakening in Mburahati  

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This week I had the privilege of speaking with Ms. Hidaya Salum. She is a WAGE
program participant and her story is truly inspiring. With that being said, it is my pleasure to introduce you all to her.

An Awakening in Mburahati

“Our group is called Amkeni” Hidaya proudly states.

Amkeni is Swahili for "Awakening" and -judging from the revival this group has sparked in the lives of women like Hidaya Salum- the name could not be more apt.

Like many women in the Mburahati ward, Ms. Salum was born and raised there. At the age of 46, she has been married, divorced, re-married, and bore six children all within the bounds of this one ward. While Hidaya has always been a financial contributor to her family, it was not until recently, when she joined CARE’s Village Savings and Loan program, that Hidaya began to truly change her family’s quality of life.

Last year, Hidaya and 22 other women from her community came together to form Amkeni. Hidaya was elected as the chairperson of the group. Together the women do everything from weaving baskets, sewing cloth, and designing jewelry while using only local materials in the process. The group then funds multiple micro-finance loans for its members from the profits gained from the sale of those goods. The women in the group also attend workshops about entrepreneurship and business management through CARE’s Women and Girls Empowerment (WAGE) Program.

Several months ago, Hidaya used one such loan to help her eldest daughter, Habiba, open her own beauty salon. Her next eldest, a pair of 25 year old twins named Paschal and Prisca, are already working as a designer and soldier respectively. But her remaining three children still live with her. Hidaya smiles proudly when she describes her hopes for her other children. Alex, her 17 year old son, wants to be a lawyer, while Jaclyn, her 12 year old daughter, dreams of being a doctor one day, and she wants Witness, her youngest, to be a traffic officer.
“I really want to help Jaclyn become a doctor,” Hidaya states.

For many in the impoverished ward of Mburahati, such a statement might be pure fantasy. But with Hidaya one gets the sense that it is more a statement of fact. To wit, Hidaya has just been asked by CARE to help with a new project, Women’s Forums. These forums will allow Tanzanian women to speak to local government officials and NGO’s about issues particularly pertaining to them. Hidaya is at the fore of this by helping to find representatives from her community to serve on the forum.

Even more telling, recently Hidaya with her husband Thomas’s help, bought a large plot of land. She wants to build a house there she says. With a drive like Hidaya’s, one knows that house is not far from becoming a reality.

Week 2: When the Funk Hits the Fan!  

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So Week 1 in Tanzania can be characterized as most closely resembling your (or at the very least my) first year of college. Everyone is so happy and nice to you. People are welcoming. They help you and give you advice about things like what you should and should not do, where you should go and should not go, eat and not eat, etc.

It was like a little slice of heaven! Complete with all the trappings. Fulfilling, but not overwhelming work, a great social experience, and even a bit of romance.

But, dear reader, if Week 1 was like my first year of college, then Week 2 surely was Sophomore Year. No one could care less about you, you realize how low you are on the totem pole, and how far you have to go to finish.

So here is a summary of Week 2 or, as I like to call it, when the shit starts to hit the fan.

Monday
Sunday was a rocking good time, but my body made me pay for it on Monday. My sickness came back in full effect. Fever, coughing. Shortness of breathe. Slight nausea. The whole she-bang,

But even better than that, I woke up to no electricity in my house on Monday. That’s right. No lights. No hot water. Nada. Apparently, a tree fell and temporarily knocked down a power line.

Work was fine. Spent most of the day doing layout for the program brochure. Then I sent a draft version Joyce for review.

Silver Lining of the Day
I did not mind much because in the morning I did not really need light and the cold shower did not really bother me. Thankfully, Rosalia took me to get some medicine from the local pharmacy during lunch. So, when I got home, I just ate, took some medicine, and went straight to bed to try to sleep it off.

Tuesday
Thankfully, Tuesday morning the electricity came back on. I woke up without a fever but the cough had gotten worse. Also, I had what seemed like a million mosquito bites on my body.

Then, at work, Joyce suggested that I not ride my bike to work. I had to respectfully disagree since it is not a far distance and on a safe major road where a lot of other people are also riding their bikes. Plus, I really love riding to work. It is one of the best parts of my mornings.

Silver Living
I did get to do an interview in the field. There was minimal translation available and I mostly had to rely on my own Kiswahili. However, I didn’t do to badly.

Wednesday
Wednesday I thought was going to be a turnaround. I went to Saba Saba (the International Trade Fair), took some good pictures for the brochure, bought a nice gift for a certain Soror, and went to (finally) get the internet for my house. The day took a turn for the worse when I went to withdraw funds to pay for the Internet.

When I looked at my receipt, I saw that half of my money was gone somehow –which left me with almost no money (since internet here is SUPER expensive. I really should not have gotten it, but I am an addict. Sue me).

I called my mom (who is always CLUTCH and available to deliver a pink giraffe at any point if I need it) and she deposited money into my account. Thankfully. When I looked at my account online, it said 100,000 TZ Shillings had been taken out on Monday. Since I knew I did not do this I immediately panicked. I thought someone had stolen my pin number. I called my bank.

My bank said they would have to close my card to investigate the claim. Here is the problem with that. My card is the only way I can access funds here. The next installment of my living stipend will be deposited into my account from the States later this month. Without my card, I would have no way of accessing my living stipend. But without closing the card, my money might still be at risk and they would not be able to refund the stolen money.

I had a little breakdown and (as is the proper protocol for all breakdowns) I called my mother. She calmed me down and said if I needed her to she would Next Day FedEX my new card to me in Dar-Es-Salaam (which is very expensive but better than having no card).

Silver Living
I went to bed upset but hopeful and sure of two things: I WOULD get my money back and My Mother is a G.

Thursday
They say in a crisis, First, do nothing. Now I understand why. When I calmed down, I started to think.

If it was a thief, they most likely would have taken all my money and not simply the 100,000TZ. What is more, I had tried to withdraw 100,000TZ from that ATM (where the 100,000TZ came from) on Sunday, but it would not let me take out cash. It was because I had not told my bank I was traveling internationally. So Monday, I called and had them authorize my account for international usage. That was the same day that the money was taken out.

So I went to the Headquarters of the bank in Tanzania that operated the ATM where it said the money was taken from and spoke with a representative. Sure enough, she said what most likely happened is that my bank charged me for the ATTEMPT to take funds out, even though the ATM did not give me any money.

After hearing this, I called my bank at 4:00pm, explained the situation, and filed a claim. By 7:00pm that night the money was back in my account. Yay!

Silver Lining
I didn’t have to have my debit card closed and I got two books of Kiswahili poetry. Also, this guy David asked for my number to hang out over the weekend. Since he is one of the few young people at CARE without a spouse and kids, I obliged.

Friday
Friday was a mixed bag. Work was pretty chill.

But after work, Sheena took me to this club called Garden Bistro. Right before, we stopped at George and Dragon and saw Jamal. He was acting crazy (but that is another post).
But Garden Bistro was pretty good!

AND David came. We danced a bit. Had an all around good time and then Sheena and I went home.

Silver Lining
David. Yep, I SAID it America.

So that is Week 2. By the end it started to look up and by the Weekend things were MUCH better!

More to come on that later! ;-)

~tiffany

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I saw an old, forgotten man On an old, forgotten road. Staggering and numb under the glare of the Spotlight. His eyes, so dull and grey, Slide from right to left, to right, Looking for his life, misplaced in a Shallow, muddy gutter long ago. I am found, instead. Seeking a hiding place, the night seals us together. A transient spark lights his face, and in my honor, He pulls out forgotten dignity from under his flaking coat, And walks a straight line along the crooked world. -Barack Obama A poem he wrote for his High School Yearbook